The latest from “A Cat With ADHD”

Sorry. I’ve been running all over the country it seems meeting with colleagues to discuss future business strategy and teaming. Then, I took a week off to head to Arkansas to spend time with family for Spring Break. I took a much needed me-time break and while there spent sometime playing with Snapseed, my new go-to iPhoneography app for iPhone and iPad.

I thought I’d give a visual overview of my activities. This is the first post in this series. Hope you enjoy!

“Rearview” by Daryl Andrews. On my way out of town.

“Crossing” by Daryl Andrews

“Morning” Just Outside of Little Rock

It’s Question and Answer Time

Don’t think about your answer to the question. Im trying to get to your gut level response. So tell me, what immediatly boiled up in your mind when you read it? Which one jumps out first? Give me that answer, not the answer you think you should give.

Ready? Here We Go…

I am ADHD or I have ADHD?

While doing some research, I came across this man, Dr. Sydney Spiesel, a pediatrician and medical columnist for the online magazine Slate, as well as NPR and Washington Post commentator. Dr. Spiesel is also on the clinical faculty of Yale University’s School of Medicine.

I’ll excerpt the statements that struck a chord, but love the heart of his thinking. If anyone knows or has seen Dr. Spiesel, (maybe if I use his name enough he’ll find us) please let him know I would walk, crawl, hitchhike, wake board or base jump to his favorite coffee shop if it meant a couple of hours picking his brain. I’d even fold his white socks, weed his garden or fetch his paper to sweeten the deal.

I’ll give him the weekend to find me, but I plan to stalk – and by stalk I mean call his office – come Monday morning.

It would also help if schools would adapt more to children’s individual needs, rather than requiring some much conformity, Spiesel says.

See what I mean? Let’s get started:

Dr. Spiesel talks to Madeleine Brand about how best to treat kids with ADHD. [Copyright 2012 National Public Radio]

TRANSCRIPT, Find the original article here:

MADELEINE BRAND, host:

If you want to start a fight at a PTA meeting, just say ADHD. Some parents insist attention deficit hyperactivity disorder is a phony diagnosis, that it’s a way to medicate a kid who’s just wild or spacey. Others are convinced it is a real problem that requires medication.

Now some light from the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. It has issued guidelines for diagnosis and treatment.

And joining us now to talk about those guidelines and treatment options, our resident medical expert, Dr. Sydney Spiesel. He is a pediatrician and he’s also a professor at the Yale Medical School and he writes for the online magazine Slate.

Hi, Syd.

Dr. SYDNEY SPIESEL (Yale Medical School):
Hi, Madeleine.

BRAND:
So, Syd, ADHD, in your medical opinion, is it a real disease, something that needs to be treated?

Dr. SPIESEL:
There is no doubt in my mind that it’s very, very real.

BRAND:
Well, what are the guidelines? If you see a child you think may have ADHD, what should you be looking for?

Dr. SPIESEL:
You’re going to laugh when I say this because all of these things –

everything on the list are things that we see in every child to a greater or lesser extent.

(Booyah! Oh, I added that part. -Daryl)

The question is, for these kids, is it much more common and much more active and much more of a problem? Does a child have difficulty in organizing tasks, for instance? Do they lose things? Are they easily distracted? Are they forgetful? Do they fidget? Do they sort of blurt out answers? These are the kinds of questions which we need to know. First of all, how often do these occur? And how many of these behaviors occur in any one child?

BRAND:
You know, Syd, a lot of people I’ve talked to, a lot of parents I’ve talked to, have said, you know, if I were a child now, I would have been on medication because I was such a hyper child and I couldn’t sit still in class. And look at me, I’m fine. I didn’t need to be medicated.

Dr. SPIESEL:
Well, I probably would have said the same thing about myself, although when I was a kid, which was a long time ago, there was no such diagnosis and no idea of treatment. In a certain way, maybe I became a pediatrician because I suffered a lot. And I don’t want kids to be miserable. I want kids to have happy and productive lives. And I think that some of the kids are going to get through it okay and are going to do okay.

But other kids are really damaged by their poor function and by what is a consequence of their poor function in school and in life. And I think that if we can prevent that from happening, if we can help kids, we really should be doing it.

BRAND:
And by doing it, you mean giving them Ritalin or some other drug to calm them down?

My Commentary: I realize she is doing her job as reporter, but take a second and deconstruct her words:

“And by doing it…”

“… To calm them down.”

This is the problem, the core issue. Educators, caring adults, even medical experts, do not understand the impact of those words. They can’t. But what the ADHDer hears, like a blazing sword tip entering the ear and piercing the soul, is akin to “oh Lord, somebody go grab the tranq gun, the rabid gorilla got loose in the village again.”

And before you say that’s unfair, let me assure you, whether you agree with that or not, it just. Does. Not. Matter.

Because the ADHDer does.

End Commentary

Dr. SPIESEL:

No. I think that that’s only treatment. Many kids respond very well to the stimulant medications or some other medications. I think that sometimes you can do very well with psychotherapy or just changing focus on kids.

(You ready? Really ready? Prepare yourself. You’re about to discover why I now have a bright and sparkly new hero)

If I had my druthers, which the world doesn’t seem to have given me, I would – one intervention that I would do is I would go and change the schools. But nobody seems to want me to do that.

(Not true, Dr. Spiesel. Your new fan club wants exactly that. And we will see Big Education flipped on its head. We choose, Innovation!)

BRAND:
You mean to make them less rigid and more open to different personality types?

Dr. SPIESEL:
Exactly right. And make them more adaptable to not to try and have a single curriculum in a single seating style and everything else that is good for everybody.

(Reread the last question and answer, eighty-seven times.)

BRAND:
You know, Syd, it’s often the kids who are the brightest, who are the most creative, who are, you know, marching to a different drummer, if you will, who have a very vibrant interior life, (creative, innovative entrepreneurs and risk-takes. Modern day Lewis and Clarks. I added that part, too.) who are the ones who are diagnosed with this. And I’m wondering if it’s a problem that you see, if they’re taking drugs, that that might kill their intellectual spark or their creativity or their differentness.

(Because surely a helpful and nurturing education system would never kill that spark by calling a child disabled because their 5% understanding of the working of neurobiology gives license to crush spirits. oops. Added that, too.)

Dr. SPIESEL:
Well, you know, I think that there is a class of kids – subset of kids in my own practice, especially, who are very bright and creative and whose inner theater is so much more interesting than what’s going on in the classroom that they turn off the classroom. And the problem is that they suddenly discover that they’ve missed stuff that other kids have gotten, and it makes them doubt their own capacity.

Wait, wait, wait. Read that again.

And the problem is that they suddenly discover that they’ve missed stuff that other kids have gotten, and it makes them doubt their own capacity.

And it gives them a sense of anxiety about themselves, and that anxiety really interferes with their ability to focus.

(Booyah, thrice.)

I think if medication is judiciously used, that it doesn’t interfere with their creativity, actually. And in any case, these kids seem to need it not for a very long time.

I think it actually may enhance their creativity by enhancing their ability to be effective in the world.

Oh. My. God!

BRAND:
That’s opinion from Dr. Sydney Spiesel. He is a practicing pediatrician. And you can read Syd’s Medical Examiner column at Slate.com.

Thanks again, Syd.

Dr. SPIESEL:
Thank you.

Let that percolate while you pack your bags. Road trip to Yale anyone?

Gabrielle won’t ya blow, Gabriele won’t ya blow, Gabriele won’t you blow your hor-rrrrr-rrrnnnn!!!

The 5 Minute ADHD Myth Demolish

You hear it all the time: No sugar, Broken Brain, ADHD Boys Can’t Sit Still.

I could go on. But, I won’t.

Let’s Look at The First Myth:

Kids From Socially and Economically Disadvantaged Neighborhoods Have More ADHD

The American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry says this about Causes of ADHD:

The prevalence of children with hyperactivity, impulsiveness, and inattention is greater in disadvantaged, large inner city environments.

(I need one of those annoying game show buzzers I can turn on when you get done reading that crap.)

Demolish

(You need to read that in the “Hulk SMASH” voice that’s in my head. If you didn’t please return to the capital D above and re-read.)

Scotland Yard, or something like that, said this about children in pedestrian accidents:

Previous studies have demonstrated the higher incidence of child pedestrian accidents occurring in deprived or disadvantaged areas.

And this:

The risk of death for child pedestrians is highly class related. Children in the lowest socio-economic group are over 4 times more likely to be killed as pedestrians than their counterparts in the highest socio-economic group.

And in Jolly Old England:

The researchers, from Essex University’s Institute for Social and Economic Research, discovered that in England and Scotland, there is a particularly strong link between the number of books a family owns and how well their child performs in maths tests.

And I could go on, and on, with example after example and all their yapping really just means that, after all these few hundred centuries, common sense persists:

Kids from higher income homes have more advantages than kids from socially and economically disadvantaged neighborhoods.

Duh.

So socially and economically kids aren’t predispositioned to ADHD. Period.

Now you can remove it from your tome full of “Causes of ADHD.”

Can someone sweep up all the debris? I gotta go outside, it’s dusty in here.

This is a barrage. Daily.

If you hear a yellow-highlighted word long enough, you become a yellow-highlighted word.

Honestly…

I started this blog for one reason: I needed a spot to post a response to the parent of a newly diagnosed ADHD child. I’d batted around the idea of an ADHD blog but I had a million other things to do, and never got past the first ten.

So I threw up a quick blog using WordPress called ADHD For Dummies on my iPhone, and posted.

That was less than a month ago.

What happened next astounded even me. I didn’t try to advertise or push the site to anyone except a few friends. A couple of days later, I left a response on Additude Magazine and didn’t think much of it, until I checked the stats.

In the first week and a half (what was left of January) I had received over 300 individual and distinct users to the site.

*Blink*

Okay, maybe It was a fluke.

This Month: 750 individual and distinct users. Again, with no real push because I’ve been playing with what I want this thing to do, and become.

Obviously, I’ve struck a chord, and wasn’t even trying. Personally, I believe it’s a testimony to my thinking: That people – as a whole – are frightened by different. And if there is anything in this world that is different, it’s an ADHD-er that’s full of purpose and unafraid of running face first into a wall. The problem is, most ADHD-ers flounder around, feel beat down and if they do get to that place of purpose, it’s because of their own grit and determination.

But, I believe there’s an army of innovators, of job creators, of new creatives that if they didn’t have to get there alone, could set their homes, their families, their work, this country, and the world on fire.

Will you help me release them?

I’m in the process of moving this blog to My ADHD Brain

Will you share your thoughts?

This is a response I left for a parent of a 5 year old ADHDer on 10mg ritilan. (Couldn’t copy it.) She was fed up, her kid wouldn’t play t-ball like the normal kids, and was fascinated by Star Wars.

1) Why Isn’t He Normal? He is, You’re The Weird One!
His normal, is not the “normal” people’s normal, but — here’s where you take a deep breath — it’s his “normal.” in my opinion, the biggest long term disservice any parent or educator can do is to fit him in the “normal” box.

2) Embrace “Who” He Is. 
He’s the next Steve Jobs, or the explorer that does what everyone else said you shouldn’t or couldn’t. He pushes the boundaries because his imagination, his home, his city, his country’s not big enough to contain him. (Hello Chris Columbus or Lewis and Clark!)

3) Keep. Standing. Up. To. Him.
He NEEDS you to stand firm because every little explorer needs a home base, a last outpost, that will resolutely stand firm, to return to.

4) Don’t Give Up! Ever! 
You’ll want to, but please, for the sake of the potential multitudes his talents will forever change, don’t, give, up!

An Article From Forbes.com Titled:

The Screw-ups and Victory of ADHD Executives

Or, something like that.